Aimless78 t1_iud8j1k wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:26 PM

I'm not sure about dating in your 30s but I can tell you in your 40s it sucks!

sr20rocket t1_iudy0gc wrote on October 30, 2022 at 4:33 PM

Amen 40s brother or sister!

Aimless78 t1_iue1cgl wrote on October 30, 2022 at 4:55 PM

I have nearly given up on dating! It sucks as a woman to deal with all the games that many men play. I know there are good men out there but when you deal with all the garbage that some men put out there (i.e. unwanted dick pics, guys claiming to want the same thing you want but then tell you differently after you begin talking, married men posing as a single man, men wanting a woman to raise their kids as in take over all the parenting of his kids, and the lies that are on the dating apps from lots of people!)

sr20rocket t1_iue1ndn wrote on October 30, 2022 at 4:58 PM

Happy cake day!

And if you feel like comiserating, feel free to hit me up by message. If not, that's cool too.

65tptjetchipwasp t1_iue4df9 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 5:16 PM

It absolutely sucks. So many people wanting the same old thing, women looking for their sitcom husband, looking to contribute little to the equation. So many guys living through the endlessly frigid relationships and being blamed for wanting more than to be just a placeholder. Coupled with the lack of trying that is embedded in the ethos of the area leads anyone with a minimal amount of sanity to just give up. Also, why in the world are women convinced that all other women who date are whores?

Aimless78 t1_iufccar wrote on October 30, 2022 at 10:07 PM

I am not sure why some women think that way but yet they are the only non-dating whore out there?!?! gif They need to pull their head out and realize that there are many other good people out there.

Even as a woman I have never understood other women, they are very jealous and damaged is all I can think of to explain it.