Yeah. I tend to avoid women that have dumped me for other men. It’s a whole Pandora’s box. This is all too common. Men have to abide by the social rules that women create in the dating scene and can’t be themselves until WAAAY later in the process. It’s why if you’re feeling so attached, distract yourself. If she truly loves you, she’ll come back. Though, she went on to call you repulsive and bad mouth you to your friends. If the night didn’t go as she expected, and if it’s true that you acted like a couple the next morning, she was either using you, has a messed up way of thinking; or was genuinely trying to avoid the emotional aspects. People use people for their own insecurities, physical, or emotional needs. People are shitty, BUT there’s a silver lining! Not everyone is shitty. You just happened to meet one person who can hide it well.

Also, the whole rescinding consent during the action I get. Drunk sex is not consensual in any way. If she had rescinded her consent AFTER the fact, I’d be prepared for anything.

Salvage what friendships you deem important and those who you think will believe in you. Cut out the others, move on with your life. Easier said than done. Took me YEARS. You got this.