Nailbomb85 t1_j9hp5kl wrote on February 22, 2023 at 1:22 AM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU as I presented my bf with his cheating partner on a silver platter by Certain_Syllabubb

'Want' to have sex is a useless baseline to even mention. It's his actions that matter.

[deleted] t1_j9hpckk wrote on February 22, 2023 at 1:23 AM

Actions aren't going to change a biological inclination towards wanting to have sex with men lol what?

So your solution is for him to just stay closeted and not have sex with men even if he is gay or bi-sexual? As long as he doesn't commit to action everything is fine?

Such a weird take. He's obviously not mentally or emotionally adjusted to his reality.

Nailbomb85 t1_j9hqbl9 wrote on February 22, 2023 at 1:31 AM

Wow, you're really lacking in the critical thinking department, eh?

He can 'want' to have sex with men all he wants, but he's in a relationship. Actually doing it though? That's cheating. That's not ok, period.

ArtemisWYK t1_j9ih5bu wrote on February 22, 2023 at 5:05 AM

That's like saying straight men will always cheat with women. Or straight women will always cheat with men. Your comments are not only disgusting, but so harmful to bisexual people (and very false.)

Do better.

[deleted] t1_j9j2rai wrote on February 22, 2023 at 9:27 AM

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ArtemisWYK t1_j9jkcfa wrote on February 22, 2023 at 12:56 PM

Well when you dirty edit your posts it looks different. Delete this you coward

4gotOldU-name t1_j9k241g wrote on February 22, 2023 at 3:40 PM

I don't know wtf you are on about, but fine -- deleted.

rhymes_with_snoop t1_j9imof5 wrote on February 22, 2023 at 6:02 AM

If he only wanted to have sex with women, he still wouldn't be okay to have sex with women other than the woman he was with. Being bisexual just doubles (minus one) the people he's not allowed to have sex with and still be monogamous. It's not being closeted to be bi-sexual and monogamous. What are you even thinking?