Vekxin_Sama92 t1_j9x7s2t wrote on February 25, 2023 at 5:16 AM

What is she mad about??? They’re backed to an account that only you have access to and is literally no different than if they were just sitting on your phone, honestly the account would be more secure than just on the phone anyway so she’s essentially upset for nothing, guilting you for nothing and messing with your mental state because she’s not using reason to understand that there is absolutely nothing to be upset about

Eraevn t1_j9xay0v wrote on February 25, 2023 at 5:49 AM

Every hear of the fappening? Or any celeb icloud hack? His password gets snagged in a phishing incident or a data breach on another site puts anything backed up to the cloud at risk. Technically more secure on the device, because of outside of it being stolen, he can directly restrict access, although as long as it has internet access it too is vulnerable, people just don't consider that aspect.

Plus it takes a certain level of trust in sending nudes, simply because you have to have complete trust that they won't send em to buddies, putting them on the internet, or if a bad split sending them to friends and family.

Sounds like you need a lesson in internet security and empathy. She isn't making him feel bad out of malicious intent, she is coping with significant insecurities being triggered, and is justified, because even if the risks are microscopic, they aren't 0.

Vekxin_Sama92 t1_ja3j0iq wrote on February 26, 2023 at 4:07 PM

Not gonna lie empathy is lost on me at this point cuz I’m honestly going to always look at self accountability, like what did you do to put yourself in this position and why did you do it?

As far as internet security goes I know quite a bit about it, seeing as I literally just finished SEVERAL courses on the the topic and related, so. It all boils down to if they’re someone who uses the same pw for every site, do they use generated pws that are more complicated, do they routinely update them, etc. your standard person sadly doesn’t do all of that but it still ultimately falls on them. Not someone else. The last thing I have to say on this is if you’re gonna send nudes and you trusted them enough to it in the first place, then hold that trust steadfast instead of getting paranoid, you lost that reasoning soon as you tapped send on the booty pic

vaguegeneralitiessss t1_j9xboqp wrote on February 25, 2023 at 5:57 AM

This is precious If you send a nude as an actual adult be prepared for it to go to anyone. Even your douche bf who will make you cry whilst perusing them. Yall some real weirdos. She should not be taking and sending these pics. She's not there. She's uncomfortable. She's doing it though. So I'm confused. Why are we supposed to feel anything but.. what even is this post but a boys way of talking about he has nudes and wanted to save them and because he is so new to technology doesn't get the moment they leave and travel t9 him... They are fair game. They are out there. If someone is gonna hack his anything sweetie trust they will get alllll the things worth having. And if someone is so personal and dedicated to getting the naked pics he has... they will get them. Why this dude made her go through knowing this dumb shit and then... picking through them until she cried...

That's the real mystery/interesting bit

Eraevn t1_j9xnr2c wrote on February 25, 2023 at 8:24 AM

That is the true fuck up part, should have dumped em and called it a day rather than awkwardly going through them like that.

vaguegeneralitiessss t1_j9x8q4r wrote on February 25, 2023 at 5:26 AM

Thank you.

Sounds like some lil ones that don't need to be snapping photos and sending much less on discord choosing ones and crying goodnight

Sorry but.. this seems super young and just.. Odd