Nanohaystack t1_jacte3e wrote on February 28, 2023 at 2:51 PM

Rule 1 of cheating: don't.
Rule 2 of cheating: see rule 1.

So... What were you thinking when you did it? How did you conduct your reasoning?

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jacuy6y wrote on February 28, 2023 at 3:02 PM

I honestly couldn’t tell you. There were some issues when I cheated but nothing out of the ordinary. Everyone has their ups and downs.

There is absolutely nothing I could say to excuse what happened. It will be the biggest regret I have until I die

NoraMosley1 t1_jad4qjj wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:08 PM

Everybody has ups and downs in a relationship, but not everyone cheats on their SO. Get therapy and pay child support and alimony.

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jad5d3g wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:12 PM

Definitely not excusing my behaviour. It is beyond belief and I don’t deserve anything

BeckyW77 t1_jaebh65 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:39 PM

Look. You cheated because you wanted what you wanted in the moment, EVEN KNOWING that it would devastate your wife. Why should we believe that you will actually put your daughter first? None of your boo hoo pity party is believable.

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jaemprc wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:51 PM

I have no right to be believed. I did that. I completely accept that but it is how I feel