Hey man. I know this is going to get downvoted but please ignore these comments. People who cheat while you should be ashamed of yourself --- doesn't mean you're/you'll be a bad father.

You definitely should BE in your daughter's life. Your daughter deserve to have her father in her life. Now, you need to show her that while two people don't belong with each other --- you guys can still be a family and work together because the love for your daughter is greater.

While your wife has every right to leave, I think she is being selfish here about moving to another country while she has a kid with you. IMO -- once you have kids, it is about your kids. Kids deserve to have close proximity within reason to both of their parents.

To be honest, while yes... your mistakes ruined your marriage as it should. Cheating while selfish doesn't constitute you to lose the right to parent and be in your child's life. Hopefully, you can talk to your soon to be ex wife about this and compromise on something.

You made mistakes that caused a lot of pain and suffering for someone you married. Doesn't mean you're evil.The important thing is to be a better human. Keep your head up and don't demonize yourself too much. It's important to continue to work on yourself.