CelebrationSevere199 t1_jad5nd8 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:13 PM

You've made bad decisions no need for us to beat yourself up anymore than you have. You have got to work on yourself and maintain a presence in your child's life. There's no amend to be made with your wife, fact is the child is better off with both of you even if it's 50-50. So figure it out.

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jad6gp6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:19 PM

There is zero chance of me being able to maintain a presence in daughters life if wife leaves the country. It just won’t happen no matter how hard I try.

It’s unfortunately not going to be a 50-50 situation so we have to decide which country provides a better upbringing for my child

CelebrationSevere199 t1_jadbokj wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:53 PM

I'm aware of what you stated about her possibly leaving but your daughter needs both of you not one of the other.

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jadc548 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:55 PM

I would love for that to happen. I really would. I wish I could make it happen but it’s just not going to happen.

Unfortunately it will be only one of us. That’s the reality my actions have created