Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jadb1xx wrote on February 28, 2023 at 4:49 PM

Reply to comment by RealVeterinarian6401 in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639

I think im putting my daughters needs above my wife’s.

I know it benefits me personally also but that is not my intention (I know you will not believe me).

I hate what im putting my wife through. She definitely does not deserve any of it. I’d do anything to take it back but I can’t

BeckyW77 t1_jaecs1l wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:48 PM

No, you don't, not really. You are putting your feelings first so once again, you are sacrificing your soon-to-be-ex wife's EVERYTHING you have done and plan to do is ruining your wife. You're just finding pretty rationales to dress it up.

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jaekufh wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:39 PM

I’m doing what I think is best for my daughters future. I hate that it’s not aligned with what wife wants and it will hurt her.

I am already the asshole. I can only try and do what I think is best for my daughter