Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jadmxk8 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 6:03 PM

Reply to comment by Hot-Tone-7495 in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639

Wife is relocating to her country. That’s non negotiable unfortunately. Daughter is young now but i need to make the decision based on her whole life not her current age

Hot-Tone-7495 t1_jadpita wrote on February 28, 2023 at 6:20 PM

Sigh. I’m really sorry you’re this way. If your account of this story is this bad I can only imagine your wife’s side.

You have an opportunity to change, you really do. But the entirety of your responses are “my hands are tied I guess, I know I’m an asshole but gosh darn it, I’m doing what’s best for me I mean my daughter!!

I really sympathize with your wife. You’re emotionally manipulative and you seem to know it but have no idea how to stop being that way. I hope this thread was at least a little bit of a wake up call for you because the one suffering the most by your ignorance, is your daughter. Good luck dude, I really hope everyone in this situations lives improve

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jadpwzt wrote on February 28, 2023 at 6:22 PM

I’m being 100% honest so my wife’s side is probably not too dissimilar from mine.

I’m as fked up as it sounds, but I can only try to do what’s best from here for my daughter

Hot-Tone-7495 t1_jadq71s wrote on February 28, 2023 at 6:24 PM

Again “my hands are tied”. You seem self aware only of your past mistakes but not of the ones you’re currently making. Which is probably why you cheated a second time after feeling “so much remorse”.

Odd_Ad_5639 OP t1_jadr0qe wrote on February 28, 2023 at 6:29 PM

My hands are not tied. I am making the best decision I can for my daughter. Unfortunately it hurts my wife.

I hate myself for what my wife has to go through but I need to put emotions aside and see what is best for my daughter