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Molrixirlom t1_j954sup wrote

Not a smart move on your part, but you figured that out yourself by now. But does not look like much of a problem either since she said its okay (or I missunderstood you. Sry if thats the case).

Edit: I dunno how much dumb sh*t I must have been saying in the last week alone... my wife usually laughes at me or is angry, but when you truely screw up, trust me, she will let you know.

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Ubericious t1_j957db4 wrote

I once sent a girl a suicide girl picture on MSN back in the day, shit happens man

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luvidicus t1_j95g24z wrote

You sound like a kid. Don't worry about this kind of stuff. Way worse things can happen.

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iloveembig t1_j963dbr wrote

You both need to lighten up. Find a girl who is attractive AND sends YOU hentai stickers. Lord knows, they're out there. 😊

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TupperCoLLC t1_j96dkyy wrote

Yeah but she also said it’s the ‘last time’ she’d forgive you. You only get two strikes for something this trivial? Major red flag, I wouldn’t keep talking to her if I was you

Edit: After further reflection, it is definitely possible she meant that as a joke. Unfortunately it is hard to convey tone through writing, unfortunately. And no motherfucker, I ain’t using ur goddamn tone tags so I wouldn’t blame anyone else either

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pseudo_niceguy t1_j96pokx wrote

Its just an hentai sticker. Its funny, thats the point.

If it was out of context and she got offended for that, then thats probably her overreacting

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As4shi t1_j97g504 wrote

>she say this is the first and thr last time she'll ever forgive me

If she is serious about that, you just dodged a bullet.

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BeneficialName9863 t1_j9acdr2 wrote

That's also what people say when they are creeped out but don't want stuff to escalate. Not saying OP is definitely some weeb incel but having a little sister who has been in the girls situation when we were teenagers, the whole post creeps me out and puts my hackles up.

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BeneficialName9863 t1_j9aehyi wrote

Reddit is filled with creeps who want company in their lonelyness. You're young enough to not join them. If you're this mortified about giving her the sticker, you must know how it looks and seems to her. This can either become an embarrassing story you end up telling on a date or something that you let define you and make you bitter towards women.

I say that as an atheist who thinks sex work is work and deserves the same status and Rights as any other I'm not a religious prude or morally against sex. The hentai stuff is creepy though, a guy in my class had a magazine with a very young looking woman and a tentacle monster, 20 years on if I say "I saw creepy (guys name) in the garage" to a school friend, they know exactly who I mean, even if they were a different year. What was funny to him, and only him as a teenager means adult women still recoil and shudder now.

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As4shi t1_j9agnmr wrote

Idk what you two have been through, but in this specific situation, replying like that on the first occurrence and after op said it was an accident and he is sorry is just ridiculous.

If this was on purpose or a recurring thing this would be a different story.

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BeneficialName9863 t1_j9aktru wrote

That's the thing... I lived in a rural area that was culture wise, years behind cities, we mostly got drunk outside at 15 or went camping rather than anything online, MSN was new and had 2 player minesweeper. Hardly anyone was a "gamer"... Doing something like that in an innocent way would get someone made fun of for a bit, then they would see why it was creepy. The ones that took to blaming everyone else became pariahs.

Now, that will happen and reddit will pounce on a 15 year old, incels etc find comfort in warping other people. Tell them it's the girls fault for being creeped out, the friends fault for being too uncultured to understand hentai, they provide a sense of company. They aren't waiting to "accidentally" bump into someone after school, they are doing it online where they can reinforce the victim mentality.

Once someone's whole life is other creeps online it's too late. I once tried to "deprogram" an incel, I thought I was making progress but all I was actually doing was teach him how to hide the predatory cues he gave off.

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As4shi t1_j9amtyg wrote

Wtf are you talking about in the second half?

What someone likes or not is none of your business, and if you want to judge people go ahead, but don't expect them to be cool with it.

No one here, myself included, is saying the girl is to blame, just that she overreacted a bit. If op likes those things and she can't accept him, he dodged a bullet by not getting in a relationship with someone that can't accept him for what he is, that is all. In the same way you probably wouldn't like to date a person that has those tastes, so you can probably say they both dodged a bullet.

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BeneficialName9863 t1_j9ao3ab wrote

If it boarders on or is child pornography, I definitely judge. If you're getting off to a cartoon schoolgirl, you're a peadophile. OP is underage but still gave pornography to a minor, even if it wasn't child porn in this situation.

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