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NoFunctionPeriod t1_ja9de2a wrote
"Ring security" is just what we called our ring bearer. First looks happen often when a bride and groom want a more intimate moment before the ceremony. Easier to get pictures of them together, as well as photos of his reaction to her dress, etc. Bridal Cottage and Groom Room were just what our venue had to allow each group a space to get ready ahead of time.
cdizzzle604 t1_ja9cn4q wrote
Lost me at HBIC. Sounds like bridal assistant realized you like her least out of all the friends
NoFunctionPeriod t1_ja9dmla wrote
That wasn't my intention, tbh, but I can see why she felt that way.
Edit to add: HBIC was her verbiage, I didn't even know what it meant, at first 🤦♀️
Rishfee t1_ja9n5mc wrote
I think some of us would appreciate it if you elaborated anyway.
TheGoodSquirt t1_jaa09qb wrote
Tell her we don't know what it means
Goes on to tell a story about being confused by it yet still not clarifying what it means
Us still confused
CyanoApis t1_jaaewta wrote
It's literally a 1 second Google search.
TheGoodSquirt t1_jaag0al wrote
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There's the point you missed
CyanoApis t1_jaaja6r wrote
I didn't miss a point. You could have just Google it.
TheGoodSquirt t1_jaapci0 wrote
Still missing the point but keep dying on your hill
4_Legged_Duck t1_ja9y1ga wrote
Head Bitch In Charge
EDIT: I think
harlojones t1_ja9z9iz wrote
You Harry pottered her and kept her under the stairs, treated her as a second rate guest despite asking for her help.
She’s not clean either, but you were very inconsiderate and tried to completely use her and then cast her off after upgrading the other “assistant”
lilyconway t1_jaa5ds0 wrote
Nah I’m sorry it sounds like she lost the plot. Her not being included in the wedding is not an excuse for any of that behaviour. Absolutely not okay.
If she was upset she should have shared her feelings with you in a sensible way or just got over it, moved on and had a good time!
Stanley__Zbornak t1_ja90z7z wrote
She sounds unhinged but I have to admit your wedding sounds so complicated I could barely follow. I didn't even know "bridal assistants" were a thing. Ring security, first look, and bridal cottage are also new ones for me.