She sounds unhinged but I have to admit your wedding sounds so complicated I could barely follow. I didn't even know "bridal assistants" were a thing. Ring security, first look, and bridal cottage are also new ones for me.

Lost me at HBIC. Sounds like bridal assistant realized you like her least out of all the friends

"Ring security" is just what we called our ring bearer. First looks happen often when a bride and groom want a more intimate moment before the ceremony. Easier to get pictures of them together, as well as photos of his reaction to her dress, etc. Bridal Cottage and Groom Room were just what our venue had to allow each group a space to get ready ahead of time.

That wasn't my intention, tbh, but I can see why she felt that way.

Edit to add: HBIC was her verbiage, I didn't even know what it meant, at first 🤦‍♀️

I think some of us would appreciate it if you elaborated anyway.

Head Bitch In Charge

EDIT: I think

You Harry pottered her and kept her under the stairs, treated her as a second rate guest despite asking for her help.

She’s not clean either, but you were very inconsiderate and tried to completely use her and then cast her off after upgrading the other “assistant”

Tell her we don't know what it means

Goes on to tell a story about being confused by it yet still not clarifying what it means

Us still confused

Nah I’m sorry it sounds like she lost the plot. Her not being included in the wedding is not an excuse for any of that behaviour. Absolutely not okay.

If she was upset she should have shared her feelings with you in a sensible way or just got over it, moved on and had a good time!

It's literally a 1 second Google search.

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There's the point you missed

I didn't miss a point. You could have just Google it.

Still missing the point but keep dying on your hill