FishInferno t1_j8ipgsr wrote on February 14, 2023 at 4:35 PM

I have a question: what exactly do you mean by “alpha” status? When two people have sex, they should treat each other as equals.

Edit: rereading the post, you started listing sex positions you wanted to do on the way back to her place? Jeez my guy. An invitation to “hang at my place” is a way of saying you’re down for more intimacy, but you went way overboard and probably freaked her out a bit. She probably didn’t want to have sex with you anymore and gave you a handjob because she was afraid of what might happen otherwise.

WhatUpBigUp t1_j8ivv48 wrote on February 14, 2023 at 5:16 PM

Don’t know what went wrong…it’s directly from page 2, “Andrew Tate’s how to get laid”

[deleted] OP t1_j8ipo9f wrote on February 14, 2023 at 4:36 PM

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FishInferno t1_j8iprzl wrote on February 14, 2023 at 4:37 PM

Why do you want her to view you as a dominant figure? Do you mean in general or do you want to be dominant in bed? If it’s the latter, you need to communicate these kind of things with your partner.

[deleted] OP t1_j8ipua0 wrote on February 14, 2023 at 4:37 PM

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FishInferno t1_j8iqa2w wrote on February 14, 2023 at 4:40 PM

Honestly I think you should’ve communicated that you were a virgin. If it’s with the right person, they’ll understand and it won’t be a big deal. Trying to act dominant and “alpha” when you clearly don’t know what you’re doing is not going to make you look “alpha.”