Eulerious t1_ja7a1lg wrote on February 27, 2023 at 11:03 AM

Well, the good news: this isn't a TIFU. You didn't fuck anything up today.

The bad news: this is a IAFU (I am fucked up). Because you think a loving relationship can only exist in the context of marriage and are willing to destroy a perfectly fine relationship over this wrong assumption.

Cerbera_666 t1_ja7htlg wrote on February 27, 2023 at 12:35 PM

Wouldn't surprise me at all if she was to get married, realise it's not all it's cracked up to be and she's still not happy with him, proceeding to completely fuck him over in divorce.

ZeroRozuMagika t1_ja7si3d wrote on February 27, 2023 at 2:10 PM

I think that’s a bit presumptuous. We are happy together and this is the most stable, healthy relationship I’ve ever been in and I do take marriage seriously. Your comment sounds like you believe I’m naive, have been reading the wrong side of the internet, or you’ve had a bitter divorce yourself.

ZeroRozuMagika t1_ja7s8cw wrote on February 27, 2023 at 2:08 PM

I don’t think that’s necessarily the case. Plenty of marriages are full of unhappy people, so it’s not as if I believe getting married automatically means a fairytale ending. But knowing what wanting to marry someone feels like, I just want him to be capable of feeling that way towards me, even if not now, in the future. It upset me so because I love him. I plan to talk to him again tonight.