Why are you looking into marriage at 24? That seems a bit young for today, at least in my country. it’s not common thing until you hit 30.

marriage is 100% just a big party though, it’s more for families to get to know each other and bond

I think your definition of love is a bit naive, you can’t spend your whole life with someone and be enamoured them, that feeling will always fade, real love is more about dependability and whether or not you feel safe