Submitted by rand0m_d00d123 t3_116ivb2 in tifu
This happened a few weeks ago, but I'm only facing the consequences now.
So a few weeks ago, I was working late at night with another colleague who's a bit more senior than me, when he suddenly asked me "hey, in this office who do you want to fuck?" I refused to answer him cuz like what the fuck?? I don't want to answer a question like this, especially not in the workplace.
Anyway, he kept on asking and eventually I said (literally just to get him to shut up) "well, if you're talking about who I find attractive, I find xxx attractive" and the dude laughed and said pretty loudly "so you wanna fuck xxx huh". I was like fuck no, I never said that so don't be putting words in my mouth.
He kept laughing about it so eventually I just left cuz I felt pretty uncomfortable about the entire thing and didn't want others to hear our convo. I eventually forgot about it, but last Friday we went for drinks with other colleagues (with both my senior and xxx), and after a few drinks, my senior very loudly says to xxx "hey, he told me he wants to fuck you the other day", and the entire table heard.
I was low-key in shock and started defending myself and explaining what happened, but it was too late, my words sounded like lame excuses even to my own ears. I also didn't want to call my senior out cuz he's pretty much the person who directly supervises me.
So anyway I left the drinks early, and tomorrow I will have to go back to the office and face everyone who probably thinks I am a massive creep. Will probs report this to HR but I really don't want to be on my terms with my senior...
Tldr my senior asked me who I wanted to fuck in the office so I told him who I find attractive. now the entire company thinks I am a creep.
Zeric79 t1_j96ptwm wrote
Your senior is a massive bully. You should report him to HR first thing Monday morning.