Non_Silent_Observer t1_ja53f2t wrote on February 26, 2023 at 10:22 PM

I’d recommend getting out more and putting yourself in scenarios where you are around more women. The more comfortable and confident you are around them (through exposure of being in social situations), the more they will pick up on that.

SilverLugia1992 OP t1_ja53k6f wrote on February 26, 2023 at 10:23 PM

Where would that be that's not a bar?

avast2006 t1_ja5v5dg wrote on February 27, 2023 at 1:46 AM

At events that express your shared interests. More cons! Renaissance faires, whatever. Break time during an evening class. Church. Community theater is a huge one. “I met my spouse doing ‘Kiss Me Kate’ stories are legion.

Put yourself out there so people can see you being real. It’s easier to be authentic when you’re doing what interests you. Someone is going to like what they see.