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CreamPyre t1_j9u86xo wrote

You called him small, then told him about your exes giant dicks?

You’re the giant dick lmao

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jefftatro1 t1_j9uaelq wrote

Right?! What a bitch. "Don't worry about it honey, I've been satisfied in the past"

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savage-dragon t1_j9uas5k wrote

She didn't call him small, just 'slightly' below average.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9ub29l wrote

Try calling a woman "slightly over weight" and see how that goes.

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savage-dragon t1_j9ublz2 wrote

What you're saying is uncalled for comment on the body out of the blue. Not the same here in this situation. The OP's boyfriend was begging for an answer. The same would be if a woman wanted a comment on her weight level by asking her best friend or boyfriend or a doctor, speaking in a manner that implies her needs for an honest answer.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9ue959 wrote

You sound like a man who has never had a significant other.

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baithoven22 t1_j9uf2th wrote

Or hasn't had one long enough to the make this exact mistake. Fyi... the answer is always "you look great!" No matter what

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BusyBoredom t1_j9ufva1 wrote

Yep, and if weight really is a serious problem, you can lead by example and try to bring her along to your workouts/hiking trips/whatever.

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Successful_Ad_5340 t1_j9u8lsa wrote

he brought up their sizes... does that make it any less bad?

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TexasMeatCrayon t1_j9u8wa4 wrote

No, he was fishing for reassurance and instead you doubled down.

If ever there was an actual fuckup, this is it.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9u9811 wrote

This is the male equivalent of being called fat.

Even if a woman bluntly asks you to comment on her weight, is it appropriate to call her fat? No it is not. Same with this, it's just too hurtful. It's "bring a grown man to tears" level of hurtful.

You need to shower this man in love and affection for the foreseeable future. Make him feel fucking beautiful, and don't say another word about your exes.

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DrBDDS t1_j9u9k9p wrote

But you can do something about being fat. Us short wanged dudes? No hope.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9u9xn0 wrote

Yep, it's honestly much worse than being called fat. I just needed an example she could empathize with.

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DrBDDS t1_j9uaa5s wrote

I'd equate it more with calling a woman flat chested. Even then, though, they can have surgery to enlarge them so... There literally is no comparison to telling a man he has a small dick.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9uagff wrote

Yeah, it's easily a relationship-ending level insult.

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DrBDDS t1_j9ual37 wrote

Yeah, I'd NEVER be able to perform with her again. I'd be obsessing with thoughts of how she's laughing at my dick, etc.

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jaytee158 t1_j9ubn80 wrote

I don't think there's a lot of empathy going round with OP

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dogenroll t1_j9ubpme wrote

Her: *makes joke about her small boobs.

Him: well, they’re only slightly below average, haha.

Her: wdym? Omg!!!! That’s true, your exes had bigger boobs!!! Do you still like me?

Him: of course I like you. I can’t fit my head in between your boobs but that just means i’m closer to your heart. Being below average is good. I enjoy you :) plus, in the past i could get a boob job, but i dont want that, i just want to be close to your heart :)

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CreamPyre t1_j9u92qy wrote

A little, but I’m sure your response didn’t make him feel any better. In general with relationships it’s good to skirt more carefully around peoples insecurities. Hopefully you guys are good

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savage-dragon t1_j9ub4j8 wrote

Tbh... if he brought up their sizes I think he should be ready to accept the consequences as he can't be the guy with the biggest cock in the world. For all the guys out there, if you pack a small cock, just own it and roll with it. It's the cards life has decided to deal you with. Play your damn game at that damn difficulty. Being mopey about it won't improve it anyhow and it won't suddenly make you the next Brad Pitt in the eyes of the womankind. It's a cock, it's small, medium, below average, so what?

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razor10000 t1_j9u8bo8 wrote

I don't think this is 100% recoverable. This comment will stick with him for the rest of his life... good luck.

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DrBDDS t1_j9uas16 wrote

This. Go ahead and rip off the bandaid and end it. That's a point of no return.

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Silverboarder t1_j9udkyf wrote

Yeah, pretty sure the relationship is as deleted as OPs post and account

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Bloodclaymor t1_j9u91yw wrote

Wait 6" is below average? Way to crush our dreams..

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EnderDremurr t1_j9ubdf7 wrote

most women actually like ~6" (or ~15cm) and that's also the average, too big might hurt i guess, anyways its not about size cuz woman like to be stimulated other ways, which doesn't require a giant bing chilling or doesn't require it at all

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Cerbera_666 t1_j9ubo60 wrote

6" is above average pretty much everywhere in the world, she's clearly just a size queen.

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CronkinOn t1_j9u9avz wrote

If you think 6" is "slightly below average," I'd say you better do what you can to repair this since you've been absurdly lucky so far.

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Successful_Ad_5340 t1_j9u9kno wrote

haha yeah- he said something along the same lines

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CronkinOn t1_j9ua18y wrote

If this thread goes well, showing it to him might be your best shot.

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Cichlidsaremyjam t1_j9u9jaa wrote

"Baby, yours isn't that small, I am just used to be fucked by these monster hogs, we good?" Worst damage control of all time.

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TexasMeatCrayon t1_j9u8rmx wrote

Good lord woman, how dense can you be? Grow the fuck up. This is serious emotional damage and it’s only worse because your idea of damage control is to talk about your three exes monster cocks

The fuck is wrong with you? Enjoy your no sex life with him now.

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N0-name-needed t1_j9uc8mz wrote

Nah it’s a straight wrap with this relationship, the fuck up originally was still manegable but the double down is closed doors

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theview126 t1_j9u7rli wrote

Yeah you messed up, especially with describing your exes with monsters.

Your best bet is let him do anything he wants and copious oral.

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Successful_Ad_5340 t1_j9u8a11 wrote

ok so he knows my exes and had seen their outlines... so he made that comment.... does that make it any less bad?

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Vlanoi t1_j9u91qg wrote

Ok this it's just a joke now lol

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notanaccounttofollow t1_j9ub8xr wrote

And that means he was already feeling insecure if he was mentioning outlines… or maybe he liked it

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Brentums t1_j9ubs9d wrote

He’s seen the outlines? What the actual fuck?

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TheShark24 t1_j9u97tq wrote

Six inches is below average?

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TheFlameKid t1_j9uagbg wrote

It is actually very close to the average. Depending on the country and measurement method it shifts a bit. So you and OP her bf are fine. Don't worry

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[deleted] OP t1_j9u9cgt wrote

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dogenroll t1_j9uakk0 wrote

Actually that’s above average…

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TheAres1999 t1_j9uc13w wrote

Based on my research, with a sample size of one, that is twice the average size!

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savage-dragon t1_j9uc0xk wrote

Now he has learned a valuable lesson in life. Don't ask questions to which you cannot handle the answers.

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Adavis72 t1_j9u9rx3 wrote

You're fat, your boobs aren't as big and perky as my ex, and take a look at your cellulite and stretch marks. And if you ever bring it up, I'll double down.

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KingCooyon t1_j9u9r8r wrote

I don’t think you are grasping the gravity of what occurred here. Also if you think 6” is below average, that says a lot about you and you need to leave your boyfriend and find someone with a donkey dick.

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VyleStyle t1_j9u8ffc wrote

Ouch. Unforgettable. Emotional damage forsure.

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HighwayApothecary t1_j9u9fvj wrote

This is reddit, you don't have to censor the word dick

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samhasnuts t1_j9ua1we wrote

Definitely fucked up here. Remember why you left your exes, their "monster cocks" didn't save those relationships. Time to look inward on yourself and why this was a really bad move on your part!

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fancy-kitten t1_j9u9wp0 wrote

You handled this pretty badly. He's going to spend a lot of time thinking about this. Good luck.

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avast2006 t1_j9uanu1 wrote

Average is 5.6 inches. You fucked up.

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avast2006 t1_j9ubd9w wrote

Oh, and you didn’t do damage control by bringing up the previous three guys with monster cocks. You did more damage. Some people don’t know when to shut up.

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Spanky4884 t1_j9u9fah wrote

6inches is big if it’s 7inches round………how heartless

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blueskies922 t1_j9ua4fj wrote

Does this dress make me look fat.....no My penis is small.......no

I mean come on girl.

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dogenroll t1_j9uae2p wrote

Am I reading this right? 6 inches below average? Wtf lol. I think you’re using the total of 4 people you have been with to determine that.

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toby110218 t1_j9uaf0r wrote

Lmao. Holy shit. Hey OP, you better prepare to sever the ties on this relationship. Your man isn't recovering from that one. It's too late.

Imagine him calling you fat and then commenting on how fit his exes were compared to you. Like that, but it's permanent emotional damage.

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EmmaMarval t1_j9ua36y wrote

That's actually not below average in America.

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Divinebum t1_j9uagcl wrote

I would hate to be in a relationship with you. Poor guy he deserves better.

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lilyaches t1_j9uagfp wrote

yikes, just yikes. acting like a 15yr old in high school with those comments.

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ImNotYourGuru t1_j9uaj78 wrote

What!? You killed that poor man and then piss on his grave.

I have been on his shoes before, at least on one shoe, I above average but I have been with women who their exes had “monsters” under their pants. At first I was kind of stressed for a while, but a lot of sex, good sex, were I could see that we both were enjoying it and having a lot of fun calmed my mind. Because, maybe I don’t have the biggest tool in the world but at least I know how to use it, right? Right?

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tangcameo t1_j9uamdx wrote

Welcome to the male version of “does this make me look fat?”.

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4_Legged_Duck t1_j9ub67m wrote

Well, 6 inches isn't really below average and it seems to service pretty well. My wife and i have a friend couple. The guy has a 10 incher with quite large girth and they barely have a sex life because she can't take it. She's in severe pain after and after a few months of dating, that fun wore off more and more.

There's uh aids/extenders he can wear. Sleeves of sort if you actually miss something larger. Focus on cunnilingus or take it anally - often that can make it feel much larger. Exploring some things like that, or kinks, could repair some bonds here.

You've hit on an insecurity that isn't going to to go away any time soon but it is repairable. Good luck!

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korbendaIIass t1_j9ubodf wrote

Lol. You’re single. It just hasn’t processed yet.

Every time he has sex with you he’s going to feel inadequate because of the “giant cocks” you for some insane reason told him about.

6 is a little above average too. At least for the US. That’s the funniest part. What the hell will you do if your next partner is legit small??

“don’t worry 4 inches is only small compared to all the gigantic horse cocks I’ve taken”. Jesus Christ 😂😂

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masta5k1 t1_j9uaqyx wrote

Well at least you made a few major (that really should not be) mistakes in this relationship, you know better for the next one.

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CausalityGang t1_j9uateh wrote

Your brain has the composition of soup.

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amarano26 t1_j9uayvr wrote

he won’t fully recover until he finds a girl who doesn’t tell him he has a small penis. sorry it’s over

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mojitoess t1_j9ubg35 wrote

break up with him, he deserves better 💗

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unsung_hero88 t1_j9uboci wrote

He’s insecure about his above average size and you proceed to talk about the gigantic dicks that you’ve had in past. This is beyond stupid. I hope this relation blows up.

Also 6” is above average. The average for men in most countries are around 5.5”.

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Ok_Pianist_6590 t1_j9ubwlm wrote

Oof she deleted it after just 25 min. Sad

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Theman4ever t1_j9ubxkh wrote

Bro deserves better than being body shamed. She's a below average gf at best

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OwningBean t1_j9uc0n2 wrote

You belong to the streets

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TheAres1999 t1_j9ucbk4 wrote

Yeah, you messed up here. Best you can do is apologize, and remind him that size isn't all of that important. Sometimes we say things without thinking them through. What matters most is that you like each other. It sucks, but hopefully you can move forward from this

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Ergora t1_j9ucnhn wrote

New post "TIFU by telling Reddit I think their dicks are below average." lol. Hope it works out with your new BF, it's difficult to say if he can move on from that one. You can try to reassure him as much as you want but you know the damage is already done.

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Cluu_Scroll t1_j9ud1yh wrote

You’re really that insensitive and dense. Might of done him a favor giving him an out.

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DrBDDS t1_j9uwepu wrote

Damn, she deleted her account. Off to get run through by Chad and Tyrone again I guess

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Spanky4884 t1_j9u9gfz wrote

6inches is big if it’s 7inches round………how heartless

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UngaBunga360 t1_j9ua762 wrote

LMAOOOO this is not real ☠️

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PrinceDietrich t1_j9uan6h wrote

6 inches is on the higher end of the average range ffs

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softbananapants t1_j9uans8 wrote

What? He’s normal or slightly above average. We like to say 6 is average but in reality about 5-5.5 is on a global scale. Hope this is a shit post, otherwise you’re a pretty highly unaware girlfriend… you’re idea of ‘damage control’ is more like adding extra burn

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jaytee158 t1_j9ubjbt wrote

Yeah, you definitely fucked up. I'd be advising him to cut ties because there's some heartless shit going on here

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Brentums t1_j9ublx7 wrote

Yeeeaahhh he’s never recovering from that and your relationship is likely toast. Good job OP!

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bobbym613 t1_j9uccjq wrote

You fucked up, you killed this man’s self esteem. It’s non recoverable he’s gonna think about this every time you guys have sex and it’ll probably affect your relationship. Don’t be surprised if he can’t take it anymore and ends it cause he thinks he’s insignificant to other guys you’ve had

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Gorio1961 t1_j9ubniy wrote

Don't worry about it, honey! Here's your solution. Tell him you read it here that with oral inflation, it is possible to increase both the length and girth of the said appendage. I guarantee he will forget any reference to size almost immediatly.

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chamsticks t1_j9uakbf wrote

Convos Like these happen all the time in relationships. Consider it a learning experience. Honesty is always important but some topics require a little more finesse. If he’s mature he’ll get over it. Guys say millions times dumber shit all the time.

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[deleted] OP t1_j9ubd68 wrote

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Ok_Pianist_6590 t1_j9uc4ls wrote

Huh? Why? As if you’re 100% secure and happy about your body. What if I complained about your loose roasty vag and told you how smooth and tight my exes were? Lol

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