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SillyGayBoy t1_ja9umjf wrote

Time to make people earn your trust gradually over time. Start with simple things like hobbies and movies. If they ask private stuff say you need to know them longer before you answer that. If they ask again say to quit bugging you about it and you’ll share when you are ready.

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CodeNameBama OP t1_ja9v8km wrote

thanks man, thanks for the advice, ill follow it

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SillyGayBoy t1_ja9vf7g wrote

I have aspergers and being too trusting was my biggest flaw a long time. We should need more proof of things, and generally people are pretty trash with the rare good one.

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CodeNameBama OP t1_ja9xaon wrote

i know man, i know.

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SillyGayBoy t1_ja9xgak wrote

Yeah but don’t be like me. I paid a bogus utility bill a year and a half because I believed my boyfriend was giving my money to his dad. He made the whole thing up. Always get proof for important stuff.

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