So I’m assuming you’re already in Mexico. Is there any chance you can drive to Mexico City and go to whatever company has your boxes?

Correos de mexico is the worst. I wouldn’t give up hope, they might still arrive

We're calling to see if the boxes are there or somewhere halfway to Quintana Roo where we are, seems like they often don't answer calls to the office there

My mother lost two boxes of my things trying to send them to the US, where I lived at the time. It’s been years. I’m still mad.

Yeah I’m kinda shocked that it’s been months and you haven’t driven there yourself already

for other people moving internationally - spend the 4-5k on a 20' container. Put everything inside the container. Collect the entire container when you get to where you're going.

You can also split containers with other people, this is very popular for popular expat destinations

It's a 20 hour drive each way. It's like 100 miles longer than driving from Chicago to New York.

I mean yeah it’s not great, but I drove from San Antonio, TX to Los Angeles, CA (18 hours) for a vacation and it wasn’t anywhere near impossible. Just seems like the thing to do for sentimental stuff

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Hmmm then what about flying? She flew all the way there from Singapore so maybe they can take a $300 flight or however much it is to Mexico City?

Oh yeah it's completely doable, but have you seen the state our highways are in? Most of them are rural backroads

This reminds me of those videos I see of shipping containers falling into the ocean. 😭

You also didn’t have to worry about the possibilities of running into a cartel… Especially worse if they can be easily picked out as gringos

I am sorry that this happened to you. Especially that the items were sentimental items. I hope that they turn up or that you will be able to get some help finding them.

When my mum died in 2018, I met my sister & brother to clean out the house. We all had selected certain pieces of furniture from the house. The moving company that I used lost the top section (3' x 4') of a china cabinet and the base of an antique barrister bookcase. I kept calling and was told it was on a truck. After talking to the driver of the last truck that it was supposed to be on, they said that what I was looking for did not match what they had. Their items were originally to go to Tampa, then changed to my area, but the items were from three different shipments. When I last talked to the company, they said they were lost in transit. While I can use the bottom section of the china cabinet because it is a full piece on it's own. But I cannot use the bookcase because I don't have the base.

I found many stories about the moving company that I used and the problems that people had with them after I had my problem. I found out that the company I used and another company with a similar name were related to each other.

I definitely get the odd look here in Mexico just for being a Singaporean-Chinese fellow, and my fiancee is pale as snow even though she lived between MX, UK, HK and SG

I've also spent my entire life in Singapore while she's spent the last eight so neither of us needed to drive since everything was never more than an hour away by public transport (we're both quite young but she has family here in Quintana Roo)

That said, getting a license is definitely a priority but we've only just started settling into the house and fixing things up, we didn't have a working gasline or stove until recently

I'm sorry to hear that, definitely feeling the pain. We were looking at getting a palette on a container but we got quoted much more, 14,000 SGD because nobody else was looking to move bulky items from Singapore to Mexico specifically before Christmas last year

Mexico has really been beautiful the last two months, and I really enjoy walking the length of some of the Calles simply because you're always kept on your toes. Always something tasty around the corner too, I've had everything from tamales, pozole, and an absolutely amazing caldo de pollo

That aside, we're taking a four hour drive up to Merida for a relative's wedding and we've been warned that our asses are not going to have a good time so I am looking forward to experiencing the highways haha

While both your statements check out, I do wonder why the drive from Chicago to New York is 6 hours shorter according to google

I'm so sorry to hear, my grandparents are not in the best of health to travel anymore and a 36 hour round-trip back to Singapore is daunting. I'm planning to see my mom by meeting her halfway, in Europe maybe, since she's never been outside of South-East Asia.

I keep trying to tell myself it's the little things they've left us, the intentions behind them mean more than the actual things they gave us, but that's not enough to push back against the waves of suck all the time.

Our boxes are still being tracked but God knows where they are

Well I'm guessing it had to do with the quality of roads and the overall infrastructure between the two locations, as well as elevation change.

The roads are rough, usually only two lanes, if you are caught behind a semi on a hill, you will be delayed for quite some time. There are not many if any turn offs for slow vehicles in the mountains.

If it makes you feel any better, don't blame yourself for saving money. I went with the reputable (expensive) option moving from the UK to the US. Still took over a year, and half my things were broken. I paid for insurance too, and that was a complete waste of money, as they refused to cover any of it.

I'm sorry about your un replaceable items, but don't feel any guilt over it.

true, but everything shipped via the slow boat is getting put into a container regardless, so it might as well all be in YOUR container lol