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ScandalousBanshee t1_j9tvxj4 wrote

The only way this could be more cringe is if it actually happened

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9tw5im wrote

people are always quick to say some shit like this in one breath, and in the next "expose" me for things I've posted about in the past. Pick one, seriously... so intellectually dishonest.

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ScandalousBanshee t1_j9tw9g0 wrote

Lmao you’re flattering yourself if you think I looked at your post history

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9twk45 wrote

well that's refreshing. You wouldn't believe how many people just drop a bombshell about my past posts on a post that's completely random, and they get a bunch of replies from people who are like "wow...this guy is truly fvcked vp... he needs some serious help". Its tiresome. thanks for being kinda cool about that buddy.

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Ralphredimix_Da_G t1_j9u4mfo wrote

>get a bunch of replies from people who are like "wow...this guy is truly fvcked vp... he needs some serious help

So a bunch of people told you you may need to seek some professional help and you're like, "that's so random!"

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u50ru wrote

Sometimes you gotta be a man, hunker down and solve your own problems. I've never made serious harm for anyone, including myself, so I don't need some jabber jawed asshole fresh out of university that they paid with daddys money to sit me down and tell me whats wrong with my behavior. Im fairly self aware of my trauma and how it shapes my current behavior.

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WhatANiceCerealBox11 t1_j9u3zqz wrote

You mean intellectvally right? Hard to follow when you use “u” properly

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u49lu wrote

meh, I do the v thing when I feel like it. I'm not consistent about it and it jvst doesn't look cool in certain words.

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Groftsan t1_j9twc59 wrote

Op is afraid of phonemes. Everybody laugh at OP.

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(But really, OP, go to therapy. You have some real problems with shame and judgment.)

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9twrle wrote

I don't believe in that happy horseshit but thanks for your concern anyways.

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Groftsan t1_ja6aawd wrote

It's not a matter of belief. People have inflicted pain on you and you will continue to inflict it on those around you if you don't learn from an expert how to properly address and rework the neural-pathways created by your past. Psychology is a science, not a religion.

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4_Legged_Duck t1_j9u1ir2 wrote

> But anyways I decided to stop being my usual quiet, recluse self and said that I'm a natural ladies man and can get laid at the drop of a hat, and bragged about my 76 tinder matches.

I'm a professor, but not your professor. I do swear in my lectures. I have a warm class room, students fall asleep and sometimes a swear can really punctuate my delivery and wake people up and catch their attention. It also breaks tension so students feel they can actually talk and participate. It's helpful.

But being a "potty mouth" and talking about sex are two deeply different things. Universities, colleges, and the decorum that's involved calls for more and more divisions between professionalism and sexual topics and activities. Frankly, discussing one's sexual exploits can get construed as sexual harassment in today's America and places of business. The professor likely has to take steps to uphold sexual discourse as the line that can't be crossed to keep students from reporting, getting upset, or just feeling uncomfortable.

I'd draw a similar line. I don't know that I would kick a student out of the course (or if I even have that power frankly). If it were me, depending on the situation I might try to make a glib mark that we just found line the we can't cross and to keep things appropriate to the entire course and possibly follow up with the advisor afterward depending on your delivery and attitude regarding this and why it was inappropriate.

I can see from your other comments in this thread you're pretty unrepentant and aggressive to other posters, so I totally can imagine scenarios of wanting you out of the classroom. You don't "get it." Methinks you might keep FUing for a while.

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u2juk wrote

I can be as courteous as possible and people will still be cowards and downvote me into oblivion, just because they reject the premise of my post and character altogether. Like I'll make a post, someone will comment something thats perfectly nice and reasonable, and I'll respond and be sweet as pie, and boom 53 downvotes. I've kinda accepted that people don't really fw me so I'm admittedly confrontational as a defense mechanism. I call it the "lip rule". If I'm talking to someone I'll be really cool and nice but if they give me any lip (disrespect) I turn into a cold hearted son of a bitch. Thanks for your input as a professor, though.

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4_Legged_Duck t1_j9u37k4 wrote

Good luck. Honestly I know a few people with similar rules. They've devolved into righteous sonsabitches that just piss people off constantly. If you're looking for offenses, you'll find them.

You made a post about sexual harassment, being obtuse, rude, and angry that you were called on your behavior. On reddit. Of course people are going to give you grief for it. Then you're mad that they're giving you grief?

Like, fellow redditor, I'm not telling you how to live your life but the anger you carry around with you isn't something you have to do. You can enjoy life and not be feel crapped on all the time. And if you can't get there yourself, it is okay to try to therapy (something you deeply decried in another comment). You just don't deserve to be this on edge.

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cjmemay t1_j9u81mf wrote

You don't have to be angry, even if your brain tells you otherwise. You deserve to be happy. I hope you find something that makes you happy, without dumping on others, and focus on that. Good luck to you, comrade

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primalpalate t1_j9tzxt1 wrote

You seem like a fun and pleasant person to be around.

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chamberofcoal t1_j9u0sfh wrote

good god, someone put this on r/iamverysmart

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u19yy wrote

why don't you do it jagoff? be the change you want to see in the world.

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AZfan6 t1_j9txxdf wrote

What?

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ABRadar t1_j9u6d7m wrote

I can tell by the way you write that you are overly confident in your intelligence. You seem to lack in the social department.

Even if you are the smartest person in the room, walking around with a chip on your shoulder and looking down on everyone is only going to make your life harder.

You made an inappropriate joke. It didn’t land. It’s not unfair that you don’t see the difference between those comments.

Please stop fvcking typing like this.

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u7cyl wrote

Im making a post on the internet. I don't conduct myself with this level of arrogance in real life. I don't think I would have made it past high school let alone college acting in that manner. Rip another one Shakespeare.

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LordOfBastards t1_j9vj398 wrote

Bruh you literally tried to say you could get laid at the drop of a hat, along with flexing (lying) about how many matches you had on tinder 😂 it appears you do try and conduct yourself with that type of arrogance irl even if it is false

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MooseEater t1_j9tz7lr wrote

There's a difference between the content of speech and the style of delivery.

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SpaceyO2 t1_j9u2rps wrote

Is your "u" key broken, or do you vsvally type like that on purpose?

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Ralphredimix_Da_G t1_j9u4a4p wrote

Hahaha super judgmental "bigdaddycool" is baffled as to why nobody thinks he's as awesome as he does.

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u4i51 wrote

hahahahahhahahaha look at me guys I said OP's username hahahahahahahaha now what XD

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Ralphredimix_Da_G t1_j9u4up3 wrote

my point is that even your username is an example of your self-worship which is the root here.

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DoGooder00 t1_j9u6it6 wrote

Im pressing X btw

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u6vw7 wrote

Im pressing Y, and using tinder screenshots that I can send to you anytime anywhere as my proof. hows that for a LA Noire reference?

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DoGooder00 t1_j9ugbfm wrote

Ya know they offer compensation to study the cerebral actions of people with certain mental disabilities. You should check it out👍

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Holy__Schmitz t1_j9u6djy wrote

“TIFU by reenacting a r/ihavesex post in a college class”

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voss749 t1_j9u7k0f wrote

You can have a potty mouth but you cant make sexual remarks in class. That IS the line.

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LordOfBastards t1_j9u7i1f wrote

Damn, all that because you lied about your sex life

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botenbooty t1_j9uakv9 wrote

I've never heard anyway swear for no reason. I.. I I don't know what..?

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9uasji wrote

They inject it into sentences for extra flavor..happens all the time. They think it’s sooo funny that instead of merely feeding their cats and watching tv over the long weekend, they “idk I uhhhhh fed muh fucking cats and watched some scary shit on Netflix”

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beat-alls t1_j9ubf40 wrote

New Homestuck character just dropped

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austinwm1 t1_j9u8hki wrote

You must be a white gym rat who thinks being and alpha male top g means something

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Bigdaddycool985 OP t1_j9u8tto wrote

Absolutely not. Yeah I’m white and fairly huge but I completely disavow Andrew tate and his teachings. Guy looks like an ugly, dysgenic rodent and has definitely raped women before. That guy can rot in that Eastern European hell hole for all of eternity like Marquis De Sade for all I care.

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