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peithecelt t1_j9pdnif wrote

Give her some space, there was a lot of whiplash reading that couple of paragraphs, and she's likely feeling the same.. Even if she didn't want a relationship you went from friends/flirting/lovers/maybe dating/love/friends...

that's.. a complicated series of emotional changes, and not that there is anything wrong with it, but it's just been a few days, give her some space.. in a little bit, a week or two, send something neutral - the kind of thing you would have talked about prior to the flirting and hookup... You might get a better response then, or you might not, but... it's not time to worry about it until then.

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WalterJamis OP t1_j9tqwh6 wrote

Yeah I'm pretty confused about it all happening so fast. I really didn't like the feeling of confusion. I really wish this relationship hadn't gotten so messy. I definitely am going to give it some space. It's just hard to stop myself from thinking about it and beating myself up for driving her away, even if I didn't mean to.

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peithecelt t1_j9tranh wrote

NEITHER of you did anything wrong, other than talking before you got physical.

You had the conversation about what you were feeling, which was legitimate.. and she shared what she was thinking, which is also legitimate. No one did anything "wrong" - it's just how you both handle the situation going forward.

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