chronuss007 t1_j9b7lkr wrote on February 20, 2023 at 5:30 PM

Reply to comment by Reddit-username_here in TIFU by sexy chatting with a prostitute and ruining my relationship. by [deleted]

Im wondering what the exact things are that make something considered cheating.

To me, having a sexual chat with someone is much less worse than having sex with them directly. Many people would let that go in my opinion as long as the other person was willing to talk about what they're missing in the relationship. I would see porn as someone looking at another person in thoughts of having sex with them which I would think would align more with cheating potentially.

This guy messed up twice, so it's a little bit more understandable why she would leave though.

Reddit-username_here t1_j9b8lud wrote on February 20, 2023 at 5:36 PM

The definition could be different for every relationship, but most people would consider making a personal connection with someone else, especially for sexual reasons, to be cheating.

With porn, you're not actually making any kind of connection with them, so most people don't care about that. Some do, but for the most part it's not an issue.

Now, if you were subscribing to someone's Only fans or something like that, talking to them, requesting things, then most people are probably going to find an issue with that as well.