Submitted by samuels643 t3_10xtsyp in tifu
This actually happened with my ex girlfriend of 6 months. My girlfriend (22) at the time was not a fan of my foreskin although didn’t mention anything until she brought up that I can get it fixed to be able to enjoy sex better. She said she had been told by her friends it is much cleaner and overall easier to use. At the time I had no issues with her logic and thought that heaps of men have it done, it couldn’t be that bad right?
Fast forward to just before the surgery she was very encouraging and excited to see me have the operation. I was totally fine with the decision at this point and definitely was not educated on how much my life (and penis) was about to change.
I had quite a long foreskin and the doctor removed so much foreskin from my penis that it is pulled tight even when I don’t have a boner, recovery was tough because I was not used to my sensitive tip scraping against my underwear and every step was excruciating. That combined with what I know know as I tight circumcision was a bit much for me and I vented my concerns with my girlfriend.
She constantly dismissed my opinion and said how these issues are just temporary and everyone gets this surgery. I started getting frustrated and said I got this done for you and you’re not giving me any sympathy. This didn’t go well and after a few days of fighting we stopped talking. Not only did I have to recover from a circumcision we didn’t end up continuing the relationship due to a lack of compatibility. Still recovering from this mentally although I get a shocking reminder of this horrible time every time I have to handle my penis and see that it’s been mutilated for a girl I will probably never see again in my life.
TLDR: Got circumcised for my girlfriend at the time, we fought during my recovery period and ended up splitting up, not only did I lose my girlfriend I also permanently lost my foreskin.
UPDATE: thank you so much for the defeated award but honestly don’t know how to feel about that lol. She did defeat me and honestly there’s not a lot I can do about it, my genitals are permanently altered and some serious thoughts should have gone into the decision. Thanks for the support and discussion it is honestly therapeutic. Any questions I’ll do my best to answer! Thanks again