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Zaynara t1_jefyhlt wrote

what is with that mod. I'll give it a try.

I kinda hope he is in therapy, because a lot of this is going to be over redditor's paygrades. Try not to fret too much, you sound like you care and are trying to do the best you can, so be gentle with yourself, so all you can do is talk with him and try and figure out where to set limits and boundaries if some of his safety zones are being crossed. Working around trauma can be difficult, and the best you can do is be patient and kind with eachother and yourselves, and if he reacts badly to something, try not to take it too hard, talk with him and figure out what did it, and how to work around or through it, though that is where therapy helps too.

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sciones t1_jefv9lf wrote

M0d 1s g01ng cr@zy.

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xXxWarspite t1_jefyd6z wrote

This bot has ruined everything

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LucDA1 t1_jeg8aju wrote

Old Macdonald had a farm

E I E I O

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SansCitizen t1_jeg8s45 wrote

automod is killing this w_bsit_

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sunshineANDrainbowsg t1_jeg47hz wrote

E?

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Reytotheroxx t1_jeg4xbm wrote

A?

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Impulsive94 t1_jeggbn8 wrote

Have you considered that maybe a relationship isn't the right thing for him right now? Sounds like he needs some serious support and help from a professional to process everything that happened before he'll be ready to be with someone.

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SoftDev90 t1_jeglwe8 wrote

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No_Love_1353 t1_jegjdwl wrote

So… You’re going to have to recognize that your boyfriend is afraid of penises now, and go all the way.

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AutoModerator t1_jegmt0v wrote

Your post was filtered because it appears to be about rape. If you were raped, then this is not at all your fault.

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ringobob t1_jegqoyh wrote

Jesus, you mods fucked up with this April fools joke. I get it, you're trying to make the day fun, I don't blame your intention, but this was a misstep.

OP, this is a problem beyond our reckoning. This is something a trained professional needs to navigate. Both the trauma to him and the complication of both your autism diagnoses. You're not equipped to deal with this on your own, indeed most neurotypical people aren't equipped to deal with this on their own, they're just more easily fooled into thinking they are.

You're doing the right things.

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