100% agreed. OP clearly believes the old "boys will be boys" crap.

u/Still_Ad5703, if you want to be a man, dispense with that idiotic nonsense ASAP.

We all have our shit, but blaming it on anyone or anything other than ourselves is often worse than the thing we've done, and that attitude provides us with all the excuse needed to do even worse things.

YOU did this, not your Y chromosome. Stop using your gender as an excuse. You're obviously young so I assume someone is teaching you this garbage in some way. "Boys will be boys" is a lie.

Time to own your shit, stop blaming it on everything else.