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thugsapuggin t1_jdvkilq wrote

Sounds like you should do her a favor and break up with her. While she may need therapy, what she doesn't need a hypocritical and unempathetic boyfriend. Also, it seems like there is a lifetime of trauma she's trying to get over. You started dating her one year after she was kicked out, and presumably, you are the first person to be there for here since. She doesn't need any more "tough love".

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Harry_Gorilla t1_jdvs81e wrote

You know you’re in bad shape when being around you causes others to need therapy too

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RissoldeChocolate t1_jdvss5l wrote

I don't see why not enjoying being with someone who constantly is looking for depressing subjects and contantly crying and in need of emptional support is such a bad thing. OP should be there to help, but she should be aware that people do get afected by your mood and you should look to be a pleasant person arround the people you like. If she really does become jealous that OP asks his mom questions or his parents for help then yeah he kinda has the right to complain. You dont go into relationships looking for someone to listen to you whinning constantly. You should support your friends and love ones, but you are not an emotional dump.

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