Sir-weasel t1_jdvkyvo wrote
Shouldn't this be on r/amitheasshole.
In all seriousness, she is 20 and by the sounds of it has gone through a lot of shit. Much more than you by the sounds of it.
Yes, negativity can drain people. But "stop whining" is less than ideal.
The-Go-Kid t1_jdvmefs wrote
> But "stop whining" is less than ideal.
Maybe that's why they posted in TIFU?
Sir-weasel t1_jdvnnah wrote
Agreed, he did indeed fuck up.
But maybe iamtheasshole would him understand exactly how.
i37i t1_jdvs4wp wrote
Telling a person "you need to move on" when you've been dealt wayyy better cards in life and they're still deep in their shit could do so much long term harm I can't begin to explain properly in words. Just....no. Better say nothing than say that tbh.
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