I honestly don't think it's a trap. Neither of them ever wanted to get married, and in fact I didn't either. We are also in complete agreement about such issues (religion, marriage, children,...) and we discussed them at the beginning because it was a big step and these issues are important.

But yes, I see the point that entering into a relationship right after such a long relationship ended was not a good idea. But at that moment it was just overwhelming and we both wanted it, because it just felt right..