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robbie5643 t1_jaxfpv3 wrote

Yeah you should google that condition. Idk how old you two are but from what I can find this is something that affects toddlers and children… Someone mentioned below behaving similarly but they put in work to grow out of it. Today wasn’t a fuck up, if anything you should be doing more things like this. Gonna have to be honest, not a huge fan of the dynamic here from the snapshot I’ve gotten so far. Definitely seems like she knows she’s behaving childishly but doesn’t want to confront it so is placing the blame on you in a really odd public way. Just seems odd, clearly I don’t know your whole relationship but be careful. Make sure you aren’t frequently being scapegoated in this relationship.

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stifledAnimosity t1_jaxw6nk wrote

Yes, it does affect children and toddlers. And then they grow up, they don't necessarily grow out of it. Such is her case.

Honestly, I don't post much about myself, so she usually tells me to post random shit as a joke. She didn't think I actually would this round, because I found it to be a funny, "oh well, lesson learned" type bit

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robbie5643 t1_jaycnub wrote

Ok but as someone pointed out below this is something adults should work on and by no means should they be putting the onus on others. Is she actively in therapy for this? I mean if not it’s fine I guess but this is the equivalent of “my mom always cleaned up after me so I don’t know how to clean”.

I just think myself and the other commenters are pretty surprised she (and you for that matter) are pretty dead set on this being your fuck up. From the outside it looks like someone complaining about a date you put a lot of work into because they refuse to work on eliminating childish habits. I mean if someone can’t eat anything at a farmers market you need some like machine learning algorithm to plan any kind of date that isn’t in guess chicken fingers and French fries…

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kaleidoscopema t1_jb0rlpk wrote

But you're not op? What do you mean...? (Or did it just remove the OP tag because you deleted it? Because you got so much backlash? Since it's self pandering and pathetic?)

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