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PigeonOnDrugs t1_jdr3com wrote

So, let me clear things out: after all of this and your realisation of an abusive situationship you're still with the dude? Because if so, I'd get out of there pretty fast.

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Electronic_Memory_37 t1_jdr453l wrote

Yes of course I am getting out of it. That’s what has been making me realize so much and causing me to spiral because i literally feel so stupid for what i’ve done

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Hot-Tone-7495 t1_jdrn69k wrote

You’re not stupid, you’re young. At your age I dated a guy like that, but didn’t have the clarity to leave for five whole years of the abuse. You’re recognizing the patterns and you’re doing something about it, be proud of that.

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PigeonOnDrugs t1_jdr5hbt wrote

Shit happens, it doesn't matter how many times you fall, it's how many times you get up that matters.

Get out of the relationship and see that slowly but surely, while working on it, things will get better.

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