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Electronic_Memory_37 t1_jdr453l wrote

Reply to comment by PigeonOnDrugs in TIFU by choosing my abusive situationship over one of my only girl friends and I can’t stop beating myself up for it by [deleted]

Yes of course I am getting out of it. That’s what has been making me realize so much and causing me to spiral because i literally feel so stupid for what i’ve done

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Hot-Tone-7495 t1_jdrn69k wrote

You’re not stupid, you’re young. At your age I dated a guy like that, but didn’t have the clarity to leave for five whole years of the abuse. You’re recognizing the patterns and you’re doing something about it, be proud of that.

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PigeonOnDrugs t1_jdr5hbt wrote

Shit happens, it doesn't matter how many times you fall, it's how many times you get up that matters.

Get out of the relationship and see that slowly but surely, while working on it, things will get better.

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