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VicePrincipalNero t1_jb5kesi wrote

Reply to comment by MissAnthropoid in TIFU by de-sensitizing, re-sensitizing, and over-sensitizing my penis. by venidiluculo

If course neither of them wanted it to play out that way, but stuff happens unintentionally. He's not experienced. IMO, what usually happens in this kind of situation is the guy says he's sorry and didn't mean for it to happen, but he then focuses on her enjoyment for a while. Then he's ready for round 2. It's not that she runs off to the bathroom for an hour.

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cyankitten t1_jb657xc wrote

Actually OP that’s a really good idea. Maybe promise her a round 2 but you don’t get to cum till she does and pleasure her in other ways. When she’s had some fun it’s your turn. That might make up for it maybe!

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MissAnthropoid t1_jb66fbt wrote

If she didn't want a mouthful of jizz and for her sexy outfit to be covered in jizz, it's totally understandable that she cleaned herself up and left. "What usually happens" when you break the trust of a brand new partner by doing something like that without any warning or prior agreement is that she isn't into it any more and wants to leave, and probably not come back for more. Which is exactly what happened here.

That doesn't mean it's not salvageable, he's just going to have to work pretty hard to rebuild that trust if he ever wants a "round 2". And he's going to have to sincerely apologize for the unexpected jizzy surprise and tell her the honest truth about why he thought he wouldn't immediately cum as soon as she paid a little attention to his knob.

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jameeler91 t1_jb68pqg wrote

OP didn’t “break her trust”. It was accidental. Saying he broke her trust would suggest he intended to prematurely ejaculate. Except he didn’t mean to.

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MissAnthropoid t1_jb6bivo wrote

She can't know that it was accidental. Even if he says so, it's reasonable to have doubts given that men are notorious for intentionally evading sexual consent, lying to get laid, and doing fucked up things like stealthing to maximize their sexual gratification at their partners' expense.

And she ended the encounter and left and is not responding to messages. Is that what trust looks like to you?

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ilikecollarbones_pm t1_jb6cotg wrote

> She can't know that it was accidental.

yeah loads of guys want to and deliberately cum after 2 seconds of a blowjob. get real.

how about the more likely scenario that after being told he could go for hours she was turned off, thinks he's a loser who can't satisfy her and has no interest in seeing him again.

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