I understand what you are saying and I don't disagree with you. I do want to say however that now I know that this is something I might experience again, I can recognize the symptoms, and I can inform my close circle that it's happening and that I might say thing that I don't actually mean. He actually has been very capable and willing to help me get through things like emotional outbursts and mood swings. During the breakup call he also mentioned that he didn't see/experience anything I mentioned in a negative manner. If it would be too much for him to try again, it would be solely because of this one incident. Which is very valid of course.