ZharethZhen t1_jdq0orr wrote on March 26, 2023 at 7:58 AM

Is she after consensual non-consent? You don't have to do anything she isn't comfortable with.

ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq0zdm wrote on March 26, 2023 at 8:03 AM

No, she hates non consensual anything due to an abusive ex. She's into very loving sex, cuddling and I love you's throughout, she just wants me to take the lead and I struggle with that. We're both rather submissive. I also worded that poorly

ZharethZhen t1_jduirp8 wrote on March 27, 2023 at 8:35 AM

But she wants you to force your kisses on her when she's pulling away? I don't think she hates non-consent as much as she claims.

Seriously, just tell her what you are and aren't willing to do. Just because she wants you to do something sexual or whatever, doesn't mean you have to do it. Especially if you don't like it or it makes you uncomfortable. If that's not okay for her, then maybe you two aren't compatible.