PaladinCloudring t1_jdq2c8f wrote
Reply to comment by ThatOneGuys-porn in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
Then you might need to reevaluate if you should be in a relationship or not. Have you sought help for anxiety/depression? I'm not saying you need to start putting out, but some other guy might.
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq2xuy wrote
Idk if she'd go that far. The reason she wants me to take control is because she has almost no sexual urges after her meds fucked up her libido, unless she watches porn. Too many other things in this relationship are amazing to drop it because I suck at putting out, and yes I've found help. Just recently I've been really bad with performance anxiety when I'm about to try things, mainly because i've dropped the ball almost every night for a week and a bit. Once things happen and I realize I can do it, it goes way better and I can be confident.
PaladinCloudring t1_jdq321y wrote
Meds do that, but the great part is, it doesn't stabilise and go back, at least in my experience. You're going to have to sack up and just start whipping your dick out and helicoptering, I guess.
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq350e wrote
That got a good laugh. Will try my best. I can do a mean helicopter
PaladinCloudring t1_jdq37mp wrote
You can always try twerking too. Just pop some Taylor Swift on and throw ya back out
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