But she wants you to force your kisses on her when she's pulling away? I don't think she hates non-consent as much as she claims.

Seriously, just tell her what you are and aren't willing to do. Just because she wants you to do something sexual or whatever, doesn't mean you have to do it. Especially if you don't like it or it makes you uncomfortable. If that's not okay for her, then maybe you two aren't compatible.