Majestic-Lion1254 OP t1_jb5xnd0 wrote on March 6, 2023 at 6:02 PM

Reply to comment by Mnerna in TIFU by falling in love with a catfish by Majestic-Lion1254

Fucking hell, i kept talking to the guy about our experience. Eventually he gave me his facebook. I took a look and he has no profile pic, but in one of the pictures he mentions a very specific mall that the woman claimed to have lived near once. On top of that, one of the women in the comments used the word "Absolutely!" which the person on the site also used a lot. So it could be 3 things: they were working together on this, it was just him all along or he is actually the stalker ex that she used to live with.

FlyGuy_2000 t1_jb60ma3 wrote on March 6, 2023 at 6:21 PM

They/he are playing you. Everything about this smells fishy. ABSOLUTELY.

Majestic-Lion1254 OP t1_jb61og5 wrote on March 6, 2023 at 6:28 PM

Yeah biggest sign was that she deleted the profile when i asked for the special selfie finally. Idk what the end goal was tho. I'm guessing they were hired by the website to keep people engaged and look at ads.

FlyGuy_2000 t1_jb672gr wrote on March 6, 2023 at 7:05 PM

The end goal usually revolves around money. Establish that she is a doctor and thus gainfully employed. Then concoct an emergency where she doesn't have access to funds and needs to borrow, with you coming as the knight in shining armor to save the one you love, and her promising to pay you back. Rinse and repeat.

Or it can be a creep getting thrills out of fooling people.

Majestic-Lion1254 OP t1_jb69i4z wrote on March 6, 2023 at 7:23 PM

I don't believe it was about scamming me out of money. Tbh i've seen ads for jobs that claim to be "website moderator" but in actuality you get paid 70 cents for each sexual message you send to someone, thus the longer you keep them on the hook the more you earn. My mistake was that the person seemed too genuine to me. There was even periods where they didn't msg me for a few days.

Majestic-Lion1254 OP t1_jb9iwjt wrote on March 7, 2023 at 1:17 PM

Fuck sake, I got a message today saying it's her and she wants me to know that she's still alive, but her health has taken a big downturn.