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nightowl_i t1_je6vyva wrote

Greed got better of you. Stick to one girl next time

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LongDistRider t1_je6khd6 wrote

A few rookie mistakes in there, nothing major. Sounds more like Mary was being cool and Cherry was being an asswipe.

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Aggressive_Finding_3 t1_je6lbm6 wrote

Man, still learning from my mistakes and after this incident I felt very bad that I was shameful of my own self for a while.

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LongDistRider t1_je6uh8t wrote

Don't be too hard on yourself. Women can be hard to figure out when you are just starting out. I have spent the entirety of my adult life trying to figure out a wife, 3 daughters, and 2 granddaughters. Interfacing with them is a skill you develop.

For some, it comes naturally. For others like us, it is something we have to learn. From my experiences, it is a skill that I am constantly refining. We've been married 33+ years, and I am still working on it. Truly loving someone takes a lifetime. You will get there. We all make mistakes of varying degrees. Some of us actually learn from them.

Fwiw, don't give up in Mary. From your description, she sounds pretty cool about the whole thing.

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