I think he should keep wearing what he wants, but then I don't stare at people's butts or crotches.

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Why are you spending your whole class staring at this guy's junk?

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OP, if the dudes got a hog let him advertise, and stop staring at other peoples junk. You should be looking at the teacher anyways, it’s not like this guy is up there giving lectures fully bricked up

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Telling someone what to wear is pretty insulting. Imagine someone telling you what kind of underwear or clothes to wear because they don’t like the look of it and imagine how you’d feel.

I’ve also never been offended by a visible cameltoe but that is just me. We all have genitali OP, maybe ask yourself why it is you find this so offensive, and why you let it take up so much of your mental space

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The real support comes from boxer briefs...not boxers. Also, his eyes are up here...

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Are his genitals fully exposed and on show? I doubt it.

You seem to really not like this person which i think is clouding your judgement of the ridiculousness of your request. You can’t demand someone change because you don’t like their dress even if you find it insulting.

Imagine him telling you how to dress and how you’d feel. I’d imagine you wouldn’t take the slightest bit of notice either.

Have you spoken to the school about it and how it insults you?

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Yea. This is on you.

It’s your issue not his. Get over it by accepting other people exist and those other people may have different values or opinions.

Welcome to life

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If it's such a problem, why wouldn't you, or another student, or a teacher just bring it up to someone at the school that can do something about it? School's always make the "clothes becoming a distraction" rule as they go. Regardless of if the kid has a right to wear his clothes like this at school or not, it's not your responsibility to take it up with him.

1. You never mentioned him touching himself in the OP

2. You still aren't getting there's a difference between "boxers" and "boxer briefs."

"Boxers" don't and aren't designed to provide support, which leads me to believe you have no idea what you're talking about.

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You are judgemental, you said the guy is an ass who insults people, is hard to be around and exposes himself to children younger than himself because he wears tight legging type trousers, and that it insults you.

All humans judge, it’s a natural thing in society so no need to shy away from that.

It just seems like you aren’t going to take in any advice about the situation or take any other perspective unless it is supportive of your view which is fine but I’m not sure you’re going to find the answers you’re looking for on here.

I’d state that telling others how to dress because you don’t like it is insulting but you disagree, that’s cool.

The only thing I’d suggest is speaking to others who also find it insulting and write/email a collective letter signed by all those who feel insulted and send it to the senior members of the faculty at your school outlining the issues you have and ways they can be dealt with in agreement with all those are insulted and see how that can be of any use. If no immediate change be persistent and then at least then you have proof of contact with the school about the concerns you have for any future issues being raised.

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What opinion are you appalled by? I haven’t said anything that’s shocking or controversial.

Good luck with your issue though, I hope you manage to resolve it using your own methods.

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I only know as much about the situation as you say, you never made any mention of sexist or derogatory comments so how can I condone that or imply I condone that when you have never mentioned that at all?

You’re now making up a narrative to make yourself feel better which is just ridiculous.

You say you aren’t judgemental and that it’s just him but you are now saying I condone sexism which is by definition judgemental and a completely unfounded accusation.

What a rollercoaster this conversation is.

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Flip this around into breasts and cleavage. Oh look at that...

You're being sexist. Stop it.

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I’m not reading other comments I’m reading yours and mine.

You said he’s constantly throwing insults at girls and teachers, that doesn’t state that it’s sexism or implies as such. Insults towards girls/women aren’t automatically sexist, they can just be mean statements.

Cherry picking ambiguous statements you’ve made and then accusing someone of condoning sexism when you don’t explain details of your statements is just immature and as insulting as telling someone how to dress imo.

Learn the definitions, you’ll have a better understanding of the waffle you’re chatting right now.

>we don’t have dress codes

And that is your problem. Campaign to have a dress code, if you succeed, he will have to comply, if you fail, case closed and you have to shut up and live with it.

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