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Myrmodus t1_jdlskul wrote

You’ve done nothing wrong besides waiting to tell him and telling him in a place where he could react irrationally. If you told him after that first realization and in private, he could have processed it by now. You and Ryan keeping it secret makes it seem like that was more meaningful than a one night stand.

But the fact you slept with someone before your boyfriend isn’t a FU, it’s totally normal. If that’s his hang up here he needs to grow up.

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ToPee_OrNotToPee t1_jdltuhx wrote

Perhaps it's not her mistake, but he's allowed to have feelings about it. But at that, he either ends the relationship or learns to move past it

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Myrmodus t1_jdlue2s wrote

Of course. But OP waiting to tell him and then telling him as they were going someplace Ryan would be doesn’t help those feelings.

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