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OkVolume1 t1_jdlsup6 wrote

Since Ryan's sister is the only one talking to you right now, guess you could sleep with her next.

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humboldt77 t1_jdlwtds wrote

It’s been an hour with no response from OP. She’s probably hooked up with the sister and flirting with BFs dad.

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ToPee_OrNotToPee t1_jdltphh wrote

Man. You seriously couldn't pick a worse time to tell him. It's like you wanted drama to happen.

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Myrmodus t1_jdlskul wrote

You’ve done nothing wrong besides waiting to tell him and telling him in a place where he could react irrationally. If you told him after that first realization and in private, he could have processed it by now. You and Ryan keeping it secret makes it seem like that was more meaningful than a one night stand.

But the fact you slept with someone before your boyfriend isn’t a FU, it’s totally normal. If that’s his hang up here he needs to grow up.

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ToPee_OrNotToPee t1_jdltuhx wrote

Perhaps it's not her mistake, but he's allowed to have feelings about it. But at that, he either ends the relationship or learns to move past it

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Myrmodus t1_jdlue2s wrote

Of course. But OP waiting to tell him and then telling him as they were going someplace Ryan would be doesn’t help those feelings.

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Fable_Noir t1_jdlv6y9 wrote

Well we all know that you have a 'type'. Any other cousins at all for a back up plan?

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Dawgy66 t1_jdls82x wrote

This happened before you started dating your bf so how would you know they were related? I understand your bf getting upset but he has a past just like everyone else does.

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[deleted] OP t1_jdlsemv wrote

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Dawgy66 t1_jdlssb3 wrote

That's possible but it's an awkward situation for anyone to be in. I hope things work out for you and your bf

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