Submitted by wafflekites t3_11kqnhv in tifu
I guess this has been a TIFU for the last year and a half, but I just found out these past couple days. I’ve been talking/seeing this guy for almost 2 years now (I guess we were more of a situationship?) and obviously I developed feelings for him, and he said he developed feelings for me. We talked every day and FaceTimed, we just got along really well. We talked about getting married and he said he wanted to have kids with me. I thought I could see myself with him for the rest of my life. Well, it turns out he recently had a baby with his wife. That I had no idea existed obviously. I couldn’t believe it and I felt so betrayed even though I shouldn’t, I’m not his wife! His wife didn’t deserve this! I feel like a slimy person. It really made me depressed, both for me and what I thought could happen and for his wife. She deserves better. I’ve been ignoring his calls and texts and I just wanna hide forever, I’ve been sick to my stomach for days. TL;DR fell in love with a man and didn’t know he has a family