Spiersy_ t1_ir6a9tn wrote on October 5, 2022 at 5:22 PM

I mean, you're not wrong, it's a bit hypocritical of her to call you out for being friends, when she's still friends with exes. Maybe you went a little overboard with the whole "inside you" thing, but it definitely isn't something you need to see a therapist over.

You're clearly young, so just understand that communication is key in any relationship. Just talk to her like she talked to you. Tell her how you're feeling. No one is perfect.

munukutla t1_ir6coy4 wrote on October 5, 2022 at 5:37 PM

Talking about other people having been inside of the person you currently are spending being inside with, is not overboard. That should be acceptable conversation for a couple.

jaweebamonkey t1_ir6q4pt wrote on October 5, 2022 at 7:03 PM

I believe the commenter is trying to point out the misogynistic undertones of referring to a woman’s past partner in that way. It’s a vulgar and disrespectful way to refer to her sexual past.

joemoorcarz t1_ir6hj27 wrote on October 5, 2022 at 6:08 PM

Yess

sc333sc t1_ir6hams wrote on October 5, 2022 at 6:07 PM

Just adding to this^ well worded comment. It sounds like you guys are both trying to be “pure” in some way for each other. As long as there’s no std in play, or child somewhere, this shouldn’t even be a discussion but if it is, it should be to say, “whatever led you to me I’m thankful for.”