No_Love_1353 t1_ir6bcgy wrote on October 5, 2022 at 5:28 PM

Reply to comment by weissmanhyperion in TIFU by saying multiple dudes have been with my girlfriend NSFW by [deleted]

But would it be too savage for someone in control of their feelings?

weissmanhyperion t1_ir6bvdp wrote on October 5, 2022 at 5:32 PM

I'm not here to talk about hypotheticals

No_Love_1353 t1_ir7dwnm wrote on October 5, 2022 at 9:36 PM

Ah, so the assertion would be that this individual isn’t in control of her emotions, and thusly OP was too savage.

RonamusMaximus t1_ir6c0k9 wrote on October 5, 2022 at 5:33 PM

Not the point, THFU because he is, or at least should be, aware of his SO's insecurities, which is why we are here. Savage, for sure. Too Savage, in this instance, yes.

_lord_nikon_ t1_ir6f849 wrote on October 5, 2022 at 5:53 PM

Incorrect. Insecurities or not SHE stated the conversation. SHE made hypocritical comments about his friendship and absolutely should have been called on it. Letting this kind of thing slide only sets you up for emotional manipulation.

eggyguerrero t1_ir6gvy5 wrote on October 5, 2022 at 6:04 PM

Bingo. If he conceded on this, then it opens the floodgates for her to behave in a way that he never would