Yummy_Tennis_420 t1_isrpl47 wrote on October 18, 2022 at 5:22 AM

Reddit likes to give a more liberal view with out considering other sides... There is nothing wrong with EITHER of you. If she wants someone who waits to have sex, that's fine as she probably views sex as something very special that she wants to do with someone who has also waited.

Its also fine if you don't feel like that, and at 17 you will find someone who views this stuff the way you do and you will have a good relationship with them.

01siners t1_iswmyjx wrote on October 19, 2022 at 6:20 AM

Exactly this. There are still people in this world who view intercourse as something that should be done exclusively with their lifetime partner.

a_darling_l OP t1_isyd9kw wrote on October 19, 2022 at 4:32 PM

this really helps thank you for your input