Shrooms will hit differently every time my guy. Even if it's the same strain from the same batch you grew yourself. There are so many environmental factors that also come into play while on psychedelics and the vibe can change from great to very, very dark in seconds. And to be honest, 3 grams is actually a fairly strong dose. I know you mentioned you've done 6gs before, but 1.7 -2 grams is more so "common" dose I guess you could say. Lots of people will start with only 1g or less.

I've also done heroic doses of shrooms and acid and been fine, but I've also lost my mind on just a couple grams more than once as well. Glad to hear that it seems like you guys at least learned something from it. Safe journeys to both of you!