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TuliBean t1_itvmigo wrote

Reply to comment by whatshereforme in TIFU by asking my mom what my father ex wife told her by whatshereforme

It's a lot to deal with for her too I'm sure. Just keep talking to her about how you feel and every once in a while make she knows you love her. It can get easy to get back to life and lose sight of the hard stuff parent do for us to make up for the one falling short. Just don't lose sleep over that part. Every woman knows there's a risk they're going to be raising the kids solo anymore.

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whatshereforme OP t1_itvngds wrote

i try to but its hard i have bad emtional trauma (from oonr of my exs) so explain or telling someone i know i love it hard

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TuliBean t1_itvp650 wrote

If you're able to access therapy through school or if you are able to find someone, it'll help to start working with someone sooner than later. I didn't get any until 27, but it should have happened by 11 for me. I know it can be weird if they're at your school, but they are not blabbing it all around at all. I know that was a fear I had with the guidance counselors at my school, but they can Also help you catch some slack. And will be way more helpful when you go to apply to college, should you choose to go.

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