Why is your family opening mail addressed to YOU. Time to have some talks about boundaries. Amazon has a newer feature where you can go to a dropbox and pickup your stuff, I have used it for my wife anniversary gift since we are both home 24/7 due to her illness, so try this https://www.amazon.com/gp/help/customer/display.html?nodeId=GVZLTK8D4EBS4QJA