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panbert t1_iveby1i wrote

You don't have to tell anybody that you're a lesbian as you don't know for sure yourself. Just explain to the guy that there has been a misunderstanding, you want to be good friends, but no sex or commitment. Keep things simple.

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ilp456 t1_iveenoy wrote

I agree. Just say you think you should remain friends. As for thinking you might be a lesbian…You can lose your attraction to one person and it doesn’t mean you’ve lost your attraction to the entire gender. I think this might be specific to R. Or maybe not, but it’s too soon to decide based on one person.

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